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Issue Number 13 | Winter 1998 |
Dear Cousins and other Relatives, Welcome back to the Hitch Family Newsletter (HFN)! This is lucky Issue Number 13 of this publication, the third following a complete volume of the first ten issues I published as a keepsake for future generations. The volume called Hitch Family Newsletter, Issues 1 through 10, Autumn 1994 through Spring 1997 has been a great success and has received good reviews from people who have gotten a copy. If you are interested in receiving a copy there are still some available so just fill out and return the order form on the back page or send me a postcard. In other news of note, the Hitch family is now on the Internet! Those of you with Internet access can visit at http://www.geocities.com/eightone_md. I have placed there a wide variety of Hitch-related genealogy and history including photographs, signatures, historical documents and stories. There are also the complete genealogies of the 14 Hitch lines I have been tracking to date. An adjunct to the site includes some interesting stuff regarding some history of the Eastern Shore of Maryland. So far, I have scanned and published to the web site the maps of the Eastern Shore of Maryland that were produced way back in 1876. These show land owners, churches, cemeteries, etc. of that bygone time and can be an invaluable reference tool for historians and genealogists. . |
In this issue, I offer two
stories and two more interesting photographs. The stories once again cover a branch of the
family that ended up in Georgia in the early part of the 19th century. The line
is that of Sylvanus Hitch, a descendant of the patriarch Adam Hitch whose grandsons moved
to Bristol County, Massachusetts in the 1760s. The final story in the last issue (No. 12)
covered Sylvanus himself. The stories herein cover some of his descendants in Georgia Also in this issue are two photographs. One is an excellent family portrait of the Tennessee Hitches taken c. 1906. They are descendants of the Christopher Hitch line of Fauquier County, Virginia; taken circa 1906. The other is of Elizabeth (Lizzie) Hitch (1851-1939) of Clark County, Indiana taken in the 1880s, the daughter of John Hitch (1812-1858) and Anna Riggle (1815/17-1898). I hope you enjoy both stories. Please continue to write to me with your thoughts, suggestions or comments about the HFN and, continue to send me information and stories about your branches of the family. I especially enjoy getting copies of all those old photographs lurking out there. If you have any, please get them to me so that we can make sure that they are saved for posterity. Thank you and happy reading, Mike Hitch |
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The Wedding of Simon Wood Hitch
and Fanny Myers, December 3, 1874
The following article was originally printed in the Macon, Georgia Telegraph and News in its Magazine Section, on Sunday October 26, 1930. It relates the story of two weddings in the 19th century that were conducted at Wesleyan College in Georgia. I found it to be an interesting recollection of wedding customs of that time and how our own Hitch family was involved. Read it and Ill discuss the family who participated afterwards. WEDDINGS AT WESLEYAN RECALLED Recent anniversary celebration of Mr. and Mrs. R.F. Burden recalled their marriage at College 1880 - Other nuptials which have had Wesleyan as a background. A faded letter, a Golden Wedding and a Wesleyan freshman have combined to revive from the past the romantic episodes in the history of Wesleyan College - both of them weddings. Minnie (Bass) Burden, daughter of the Rev. W.C. Bass was married to Richard F. Burden Sept. 9, 1880 during her fathers presidency; and they have recently celebrated their fiftieth anniversary. Frances Elizabeth Hitch, the grand-daughter of Fannie Myers Hitch, who was married to S.W. Hitch during her fathers term as president, is now president of the freshman class at Wesleyan. The faded letter was one found by Mrs. Burden which she received from her mother in 1874, describing Fannie Myers' wedding. These two ceremonies were only six years apart and since that time there have been several at Wesleyan but none-of them have been surrounded with the romantic glamour and subsequent history that these have. |
As the
daughters of the president both girls knew Wesleyan as their home and their weddings were
truly quiet home affairs, the only difference being that all of the immediate family could
not be invited; for the girls who composed the college family had to be content to watch
over bannisters and through shutters for a glimpse of the bride and groom. They were also members of the Adelphean Sorority, now known as Alpha Delta Pi. This sorority was organized at Wesleyan and is the oldest in the United States. The hall of this historic organization was the scene of both weddings. It was in the old-old building, a replica of which is to be the new Alumnae House at Rivoli, as George I. Seney had-not yet made possible the "old" Wesleyan or what is now known as the Conservatory. The Adelphean Hall was at one end of the main floor and the Philomethean Hall at the other. Then the structure was renovated and several floors and spires were added, the Adelphean Hall was made into two rooms and the Philomethean Hall became the Grand Parlor. The sororities were homes on the fifth floor. So the wedding ceremonies were read in what is now known as the presidents office and the Student Government rooms. A clipping from a Macon Telegraph of 1880 is tucked away in Mrs. Burdens scrapbook, along with many other records of interesting events in her life. It reads: "Night before last at the Wesleyan Female College Mr. Richard F. Burden was united in marriage to Miss Minnie Bass, daughter of Rev. W.C. Bass, president of Wesleyan Female College. The bridal couple left immediately for Cincinnati and the North. "Mr. Burden is one of Macon's most enterprising and trusted young business men and numbers among his friends a host of our most substantial citizens. The bride, one of Macons loveliest daughters, has been since her graduation a favorite in society and the pride of a large circle of friends. May happiness forsake them never. The formal notice in the Wedding column states that Bishop George F. Pierce performed the ceremony. He was the first president of Wesleyan and a close friend of Mr. Bass. |
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WORE BEARD THEN The scrapbook also contained a newspaper print of a pen and ink sketch of Mr. Burden. When asked if that was the way the groom looked on his wedding day, Mrs. Burden laughingly remarked "No indeed, he had a long beard when we were married, and looked like he was fifty years old." But she hastened to explain that everybody wore beards then. The wedding was in the evening and the bride wore the conventional white dress and veil; but her bouquet was a nosegay made by Mrs. Woodruff, mother of the Macon Florist, from her own garden flowers. She also made a boutonniere for the groom. Of course, this popular young couple received many lovely wedding gifts but the one that Mrs. Burden remembered particularly was the Family Bible, presented them by "Aunt Nora" Canning her Sunday School teacher. It was a vast proportions, according to the "bride" and one of her chums, Leila (Burkes) Holmes remarked to the donor; "Well Aunt Nora, you need not give me a Bible when I marry. I had rather have a Jews-harp." Mrs. Burden did not remember what the teacher's gift to Dr. and Mrs. W.B. Holmes was but she knew that it was not a Family Bible similar to hers. Campbell King is one of three people still living in Macon who attended the Burden's wedding and the only one of their "set". The other two were members of the college family and younger. He recalled with pleasant reminiscence the jolly times their crowd used to have together. They called themselves the Creme de la Creme club and had many parties and good times in innocent fun. "We did not run with the fast crowd." he said for none of us danced but sometimes we did go to the theater. We had the beat time of any group in town; and we were all at the wedding." "We were at the train to see them off; but there was no rough stuff. Of course we threw a little rice around but we did not tie any tin cans as I can remember." Mr. Henry Derry who was a young boy living in the college with his father Professor Derry, at the time, also denied that there were any pranks played on the young couple. "She was entirely too dignified and so was he," he explained. |
J. Lundie
Smith, son of Prof. Crosby Smith was only seven years old but he distinctly remembered
going calling with "Miss Minnie" and leaving cards just before the wedding; but
he is not clear as to whether they were invitations farewell messages or just formal
visiting cards. He knows that they were whatever convention called for at the time. But
the honor of riding with the bride-to-be and her small brother, Julian Bass, on this
important mission was what made a lasting impression on him. The Golden Wedding celebrated on Sept. 9 by Mr. and Mrs. Burden with a quiet home dinner given by their two daughters, Octavia (Burden) Stewart and Alice (Burden) Domingos, recalls this delightful event fifty years ago which it commemorated. The only guests on this occasion except the immediate family, were Mrs. Ria Burkes and her daughter, Miss Margie Burkes who have both a blood and Wesleyan kinship to the Burdens. Both Mrs. Burdens daughters are graduates of Wesleyan and Adelpheans. Eugene Burden is their only son. GROOM NOT COMPOSEDThe wedding of Fannie (Myers) Hitch, daughter of Dr. Edward Howell Myers who was twice president of Wesleyan, occurred on December 3, 1874. The only written record of that wedding is in the letter which Mrs. Burden recently found. Her father and mother were living in the college. This is an extract in the letter: "This has been one of the loveliest days I ever saw, clear, bright, beautiful, not a cloud has flicked the blue sky; all has passed as sweet as a marriage bell". May It be emblematic of dear Fannys wedded life. I dislike to see her go, she has always been a special favorite of mine, and I believe fully reciprocated my feelings. She will make a noble wife, and deserving a mighty good husband, which I trust she has found. She made a sweet modest and pretty looking bride in her traveling suit of Plum Colored Cashmere, with Cardinal-trimmings-and a Beautiful white Japonica in her hair; without her hat. I never saw her look as pretty. |
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"The
groom looked very stylish and was quite composed though you could see it was the result of
desperate effort. Dr. Myers I thought at one time would not be able to get through as his
voice faltered considerably. The ceremony was a pretty one -- and such a pretty picture as
would have put you young fry Maggie, Sallie, and Clara -- much in the notion
if it did not make you desperate. Julian who you know loved Fanny very much, asked me if
he must applaud and say Hurrah for Col. Hitch!. I begged him to excuse
us." The Maggie mentioned in the letter as a "young fry" was a younger sister of the bride who, with Mrs. Burden, was visiting away from home at the time. Julian was then about six years old. Mrs. Burden had been graduated from Wesleyan the summer before and she recalled with great glee the April Fool joke which the senior class played on Dr. Myers. It seems that he did not attend class on time and the Mercer boys had told them how they walked out when the professor was late. So the girls first hid under their desks and then, when he did not come, left the class and went down on the back campus. Mrs. Burden said that Dr. Myers did not think their conduct was at all "lady-like" and told them so very emphatically. Mary (Hitch) Peabody, only daughter of Mrs. Hitch, is living in Macon with her daughter Frances (Peabody) McKay. They are both Wesleyan graduates, and Mrs. Peabody was an Adelphean, having attended there before the sororities were disbanded. The fact that "Betty" Hitch, the president of the Wesleyan freshman class was called before the sophomore court for being the only "Hitch" in her class, recalls to Mrs. Peabody the conversation of two of the old mammy servants of the college at the time of her mother's wedding. One of them said "Mis Fannie is gittin married dis mornin, ain't she? Whose she gwiner marry?" The other replied "Lawd, chile, I der know, it's either Mister Itch or Mister Scratch, I disremember which." She also tells how when she attended Wesleyan Mrs,, Burdens father was president of the college, and having known her mother in school and as a young lady, he simply transferred her name down to the daughter. And although she was known to her school-mates as Mary Hitch, she was always "Fannie Myers" to him. |
Mrs. Peabody
said that with much foreboding Dr. and Mrs. Myers let their oldest daughter go to
Blackshear, Ga. "A little town just out of the Okefenokee swamp" to teach
school. It was their impression that all learning and culture stopped at Macon, or at
least at Savannah. They were assured that the people she was going among were densely
ignorant and decidedly uncouth. So imagine their horror when she wrote them that she was
going to marry a young country lawyer of that municipality. However, their minds were set
at rest when they found that he was the nephew and law partner of Captain John C. Nichols,
a war hero and congressman from that district. IMPORTANT ENCOUNTER Then the wedding hour was set for 7 oclock in the morning in order that the bride and groom might attend the luncheon with which Mr. And Mrs. Green (Greenberry Jones Foraker, another uncle and aunt of the groom wished to entertain for them at their Atlanta home. It seems that there was but one train a day running between Macon and Atlanta then. The story is told of their trip to Atlanta that they had not been on the train long before the nervous young groom felt the need of a smoke, so he left his bride and went into the smoker. Now the bride was widely acquainted, through her father and numbered among her friends the famous barrister, L.Q.C. Lamar. He happened to be traveling the same route and, passing through the train, spied the pretty young girl sitting alone. He sat down for a chat. When the young lawyer returned to his seat, he found it occupied by a man who was at the top of the ladder which he had just begun to climb and felt rather timid about intruding, being naturally reticent, also. So he continued up the car and returned, not once but several times. Finally Justice Lamar noticed his restless pacings and remarked casually: "Who is the nice looking young man walking up and down the car?" The bride blushingly admitted that he was her husband. "Your husband! When were you married?" |
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"This
morning" she said. Then the courteous old-gentleman was covered with embarrassment
and jumped up hastily. But she called her new husband to be introduced and they all had a
friendly conversation. When he got up to leave, he told Mrs. Hitch "My dear, keep
your husband out of politics, for Washington is situated just over Hell." She took his advice, for she and her husband spent their useful lives quietly, in Waycross, Georgia, with never a political aspiration to disturb their tranquility. Fanny Hitch, the subject of the preceding article was born as Frances Myers on December 31, 1849, the daughter of Rev. Edward Howell Myers and Mary Frances Mackie. She died in Ware County, Georgia on November 6, 1912. As we have learned from this article, Fanny Myers married Simon Wood Hitch on December 3, 1874. Simon W. Hitch was born on September 5, 1848 in Jones Co., Georgia and died September 18, 1915 in Waycross, Ware County, Georgia. He was the son of Sylvanus F. Hitch (c.1811-1880) who had moved from Massachusetts to Georgia in the early part of the 19th century. Once in Georgia, he married Ann Apollina Nichols (c.1822-1898). [See the next article as well as Issue 12 for more details on this family]. I am grateful to Louise (Hitch) Gilchrist of Courtland, Alabama for sending me a copy of the preceding article and information on her line of the family. Mrs. Gilchrist is a granddaughter of Simon Wood Hitch through his son Edward Sylvanus Hitch. Thanks Louise for sharing this information. Letter from Mary French Hitch to Radford T. Hitch, March 10, 1900 This article includes a transcription of a letter written in 1900 by Miss Mary French Hitch in Bristol Co., Massachusetts to Radford T. Hitch in Greenville Co., South Carolina (Thanks again to Louise Gilchrist for providing me with a copy of this letter). In it, Miss Hitch calls Radford her "cousin" when if fact they were a distant second cousins, once removed with their common ancestor being Capt. Samuel Hitch (1740/41-1825) of Bristol County. Capt. Samuel was a grandson of the patriarch Adam Hitch (1658/59-1731) of Somerset County, Maryland. |
Miss
Hitch (1865-1927) descended from Capt. Samuel Hitch through his son Hardy Elgate Hitch
(1775-1858), grandson Charles Hitch (1804-1878), and great-grandson Joshua Charles Hitch
(1829-1890) - her father. Radford T. Hitch (1859-??) descended from Capt. Samuel Hitch
through another son Sylvanus Hitch (1785-1831/39), and grandson Sylvanus F. Hitch
(c.1811-1880). [NOTE: see Issue 12 for more discussion on the lineage that includes
Sylvanus Hitch and descendants.] [Also NOTE: "second cousins, once removed"
indicates that the individuals parents were the 2nd cousins with
generational differences represented by the "removed" - in this case, one
generation removed.] The Federal Census of 1900 shows Mary F. Hitch in a household in New Bedford, Bristol County, Massachusetts with her mother Melanie F. Hitch, brother Frank B. Hitch and cousin Harry G. Macomber. Indeed, my records show Mary French Hitch in the following family: Joshua Charles Hitch, born 1/1/1829 and died 5/25/1890, married 11/16/1859 to Melanie B. French (3/1841-aft 1920), the daughter of Rodney and Rowena (Burt) French. They had two known children:
Apparently, neither Mary nor her brother Frank Hitch ever married. In the Census of 1900, Radford T. Hitch is shown as a boarder in a household with his wife Dollie in Greenville County, South Carolina. This also correlates with my records that show Radford in the family as follows: Sylvanus F. Hitch, born c.1811 in Bristol County and died 6/5/1880 in Clinch County, Georgia. He married 2/23/1845 to Ann Apollina Nichols (c.1822-1898), the daughter of Simon Wood and Margaret (Waver) Nichols. They had children:
Radford Hitch married Dollie C. Colesbury on April 21, 1896 in Georgia. |
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Letters from bygone times provide excellent
insight into the lives and everyday affairs of the people who wrote them. I really get
excited when I come across one that relates directly to the Hitch family for they provide
first hand the thoughts and feelings of our ancestors untainted by time-worn stories and
imperfect recollections. The following letter is especially compelling because it also
talks of the interest of Hitches in their family history four generations ago. When you read the following letter, see if you do not feel as if youre in the same room with these people as they discuss their relations and interests. Celebrate with them the fact that Miss Hitch has "the electric now" as is longing to enjoy a spring walk in the woods nearly 98 years ago! New Bedford, Mass. March 10, 1900 Dear Cousin Radford: I was very glad to hear from you, and am glad you liked my picture. When I looked at yours I did not wonder that Captain Clay had recognized you as a member of the Hitch family. It is always pleasant to make new acquaintances, if only on paper, and I trust we may see each other after I shall be very glad at sometime to accept your invitation and visit you in your home. Perhaps you would like to know something about me. In June 1890, I graduated from Wellesley College, proud in my possession of a B.A. degree. Since there I have been teaching in a preparatory school for _____ in this city. I have charge of the Geometry, Latin, and Greek classes so you may imagine time does not waste(?) on my hands. The school is not a large one, but most of the pupils are interested in this work, which makes my task(?) all the pleasanter. We send about six to college each year. Before taking up this work, I was in a bank. I rather(?) enjoy business better, and therefore am studying Stenography. My brother is a cotton sampler and stapler. He with my Mother and myself and a cousin compose our family, my Father having died a few years before I graduated from Wellesley. |
When you send your picture I
wish we might have one of Mrs. (?) Hitch too, for we are glad to welcome her to the
family. We are having delightful spring weather now, and I shall make my first excursion into the woods this week. It is time now(?) to enjoy the willows and alders and birches and note with what grace their tassels give us their spring-greeting. I am very fond of the wild flowers and have quite a large herbarium. We have the electric now out into the suburbs so it is easy to become acquainted with nature; and man cannot improve upon our early spring friends in their snow white purity and grace, as if they had received their color from the snow. Mrs. Fengae (?) wished to be remembered to you and your wife, to whom we all send most cordial greetings and many wishes _____ _____ _____ _____, much prosperity. Affectionately Your Cousin, Mary F. Hitch PHOTOGRAPHS In a paper entitled "Identification Legend" that came with the following picture of the Tennessee Hitch Family, the individuals are identified as follows (I have added dates). Note that future married names are included many times. Also, from the ages of some of the people in the picture, we can conclude that the picture was taken circa 1906. BACK ROW: Tip Hitch (1874-1920), Bruce Seaton, Fate McGinley, Roy Hitch (1891-1960), Jim Hitch (1889-1975), Enoch Waters with nephew Jim, Mose Hitch (1896-1932), Mack Davis, Mack Hitch (1877-1957). NEXT ROW (down): Rachel Davis Hitch (1869-1961) with Paul (1906-1980) in lap, Andy Davis (1854-1929), Charles Stephenson, Lucy Hitch Stephenson (1884-??), Ellen Hitch Wheeler (1889-1980), Mary Hitch Hitch (Mary Ann, 1847-1914) holding granddaughter Edith, Jennie McGinley, Aunt Lou Hitch (1854-1914), Hitch Davis, Nora Hitch (1878-1960), Maude Waters, Tennie Davis Amerine. |
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